Full Transparency Moment About My Locs Right Now

I’ve been holding this secret in for months now and it’s been suffocating. As someone that has been sharing her hair story online in the hopes of inspiring others this particular pain point has been difficult to handle for myself. What’s the secret? I am not in love with my locs right now. *cringe*

It is as difficult to write as it is to say. The reasoning that I had given myself for holding on to that secret for the past few months was because “I am a person of influence.” My ego led me to believe that if I shared what I was really feeling that it would discourage other women from starting locs or doing something bold with their own hair. I also went as far as to believe that I was “protecting” myself from the backlash of my social media audience. But the reality is, I was the only one suffering.

As I was putting my locs into a headwrap this morning something said enough is enough. I needed desperately to live in my truth, share how I was honestly feeling, and be okay with not having a clear answer on what was next. The shame and guilt that I was carrying was something that I had created in my mind. I realized in that moment that in order to move forward I needed to let it go. I grabbed my phone and spoke from my heart. And after I recorded my recent video “full transparency moment about my locs right now”, I felt instead relief.

It reminded me of when I first started sharing my hair journey on my blog. It didn’t matter if I looked crazy or didn’t know what I was talking about the (natural hair & loc) community embraced me— flaws and all. That is the space that I needed during those moments. That is the space I am forever grateful for. And that is the space that I have strived to cultivate.

So this is me, leaning into my community, and sharing a transparent moment in my journey. I am glad you’re here!

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Jocelyn Reneé

Jocelyn Reneé is a Licensed Cosmetologist, Loctician and Textured Hair Educator. She was born and raised in the Washington DC area and is a graduate of the Aveda Institute Cosmetology Science program. With over 14 years in the Hair Care Industry, from Salon Assistant to Natural Hair Blogger to Professional; Jocelyn is passionate about cultivating healthy hair.

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This is more to do with your mental health rather than your locs, something else is the issue, your locs can be cut off, but your mental health is harder to fix. If you think about people that don’t have a choice during chemo, and loose their hair you will see this has got to be more than being sad about your hair, you are very pretty I bet any style suits you. take some time to look after yourself.

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